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MY ROXY & MASSIMO

"Lotus & Lily
side by side"

Traditional Ceremony & Intimate Wedding | Chloe Gallery

Vietnamese tea ceremony table decorated with red and yellow flowers in a ceramic vase, fresh fruits, and an Italian-patterned table runner in front of a double happiness backdrop
Close-up of the bride's hand holding a delicate white lily bouquet cascading over her flowing white wedding gown
The newlyweds sharing a kiss at the reception backdrop with colorful floral arrangements on both sides and guests passing by in soft motion blur

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THE AUTHENTICITY

Across the vast landscape of England, Roxy and Massimo began their love story with a special first date. They decided to exchange dishes from their homelands. Roxy cooked a bowl of phở, while Massimo prepared a plate of pasta, allowing each other to taste the flavors they had grown up with. Two dishes, two cultures, and somehow they found a connection from that very moment.

From that simple first date, Roxy and Massimo spent nearly seven years together, sharing a deep passion for food and traveling across different places. Their journey eventually reached a new milestone: a wedding celebration that blended Vietnamese and Italian cultures, where their love was told through familiar flavors, family traditions, and the lasting values of kinship.

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Wedding concept moodboard blending Vietnamese and Italian elements including lanterns, lotus flowers, lilies, a moka pot, and folk art illustrations

PHIN COFFEE AND ESPRESSO

Roxy had long dreamed of transforming her childhood home into a warm and welcoming space for one of the most meaningful moments of the day: the Vietnamese traditional ceremony. The entrance gate was decorated with flowers, lanterns, and a delicate ceramic sign lovingly made by Aimee, Roxy’s younger sister. Right at the doorway, a small cabinet was adorned with childhood photos of the couple alongside images of beloved family members. It created a gentle and heartfelt welcome, allowing every guest to feel the family story and love that had led Roxy and Massimo to this day.

Full view of the tea ceremony room with a vibrant red double happiness backdrop, round wooden table, and large floral arrangements on both sides
Bride wearing a red embroidered áo dài sitting with a warm-toned bridal bouquet in front of the double happiness ceremony backdrop

Inside the living room, the space was highlighted by a vibrant red backdrop featuring the traditional double happiness symbol, a pair of birds, and a large floral arrangement that brought a strong sense of Vietnamese tradition. At the center of the room stood a round wooden table prepared for both families. The table was decorated with subtle Italian inspired details along the runner, accompanied by bright yellow lemons that added a soft cultural connection between the two worlds.

Inspired by the idea of cultural exchange, Vietnamese and Italian elements were thoughtfully woven into every part of the ceremony. When Massimo’s family arrived at the front gate, the lively sounds of drums and gongs, along with a traditional lion dance, opened the celebration with joy and excitement. As a playful challenge for the groom’s side, the traditional game “Rồng Rắn Lên Mây” was introduced. Although Massimo and his groomsmen had never heard of the game before, they managed to complete the challenge in just 14 seconds.

Two red lion dancers performing on the street as bridesmaids in white áo dài watch from the decorated entrance gate
The bridal party and groomsmen playing the traditional Vietnamese game Rồng Rắn Lên Mây in front of the flower-decorated entrance
The groom in a blue áo dài and his mother in a dark green áo dài standing between two vibrant red lion dancers upon arrival at the ceremony
The bride in her red áo dài joyfully running toward the groom as bridesmaids in white áo dài clap and cheer by the flower-lined entrance
Aerial view of guests watching the bridal party and groomsmen play the traditional Rồng Rắn Lên Mây game in front of the decorated entrance with hanging lanterns
The groom and groomsmen running and cheering joyfully outside the family home as the bride and bridesmaids laugh and celebrate nearby
The groom in a blue áo dài cheering with his groomsmen in olive áo dài after completing the traditional challenge, with lanterns and floral decorations behind them
Engagement trays blending Vietnamese offerings of betel and areca with Italian specialties including truffle products and cheese, surrounded by vibrant red and orange flowers

The engagement trays were also carefully prepared with a thoughtful blend of cultures. Alongside traditional Vietnamese offerings such as betel leaves and areca nuts, and “bánh phu thê”, the trays also included Italian specialties like cheese, olives, and truffles that Massimo’s family personally prepared.

Close-up of Italian gourmet specialties on an engagement tray including truffle cheese, salsa tartufata, and truffle oil nestled among red flowers and a double happiness emblem

Within the warmth of family, the ceremony unfolded with stories that had long been waiting to be shared, heartfelt advice from parents, gentle smiles, tears of joy and tight embraces.

The groom speaking into a microphone during the tea ceremony while the bride stands beside him with her bouquet against the double happiness backdrop
Vietnamese phin coffee filter with lotus flowers beside an Italian moka pot with white lilies, symbolizing the couple's cultural coffee exchange ritual

Instead of exchanging rings, Roxy and Massimo chose to perform a unique ritual together. Roxy enjoyed a warm cup of espresso brewed with a moka pot, while Massimo experienced the taste of traditional Vietnamese phin coffee. Each drink was carefully prepared by the other, turning this small gesture into a meaningful exchange of affection.

The bride and groom pouring tea from ceramic teapots together during the traditional tea serving ritual for their families
The groom sipping Vietnamese phin coffee while the bride enjoys an espresso during their unique cultural coffee exchange ritual as family members applaud
The groom wiping away tears while reading his speech in a blue áo dài as the bride looks on warmly during the traditional ceremony
Close-up of the couple holding hands, showing the intricate peacock pattern on the groom's blue áo dài and the floral embroidery on the bride's red áo dài with her bouquet
The groom in a blue áo dài sharing a heartfelt embrace with a family member in a teal áo dài while guests smile warmly in the background
The bride holding a microphone with tears during her speech, standing beside her mother in a mint green áo dài at the tea ceremony
A tender close-up of the bride smiling at the groom during the ceremony, wearing a pearl necklace and red floral áo dài with warm-toned flowers in the background
The couple sharing a kiss in front of the red double happiness backdrop, the groom in a blue áo dài and the bride in red holding her bridal bouquet
The bride's father giving a lively speech at the tea ceremony table as family members and guests laugh and clap around him
The couple sharing a joyful laugh with the groom's mother at the ceremony table, surrounded by flowers and fruits against the red backdrop
The groom's parents and international friends applauding during the ceremony, seated at a table decorated with flowers, tea sets, and fresh fruits

The ceremony was spoken in three different languages, yet nothing felt lost in translation. Some moments simply needed no words, only presence and sincerity. 

The couple handing out red envelopes to their bridesmaids and groomsmen with lion dancers and hanging lanterns in the background
The newlyweds laughing as they run hand in hand through a raised-arm tunnel formed by their bridesmaids and groomsmen
The couple raising their hands in celebration between two red lion dancers as bridesmaids and groomsmen cheer, with white flower petals scattered on the ground
The couple kissing between two lion dancers as white flower petals shower around them under red and yellow lanterns

LOTUS AND LILY

As the reception began, Roxy carried a bouquet that combined Vietnamese lotus flowers with lilies, the national flower of Italy. Two familiar blooms from different cultures were placed together, becoming a small but meaningful detail that continued the story of the day.

Close-up of the bridal bouquet combining white lotus buds and white lilies resting on a vintage silver tray in soft natural light
Portrait of the groom in a classic black tuxedo and bow tie relaxing in a blue velvet armchair beside a chess table against an ornate white wall
The groom's black leather monk strap shoes, satin bow tie, and cufflinks arranged on a rich red carpet beside his tuxedo jacket
The bride standing in the bridal suite in her white strapless gown, holding a lotus and lily bouquet with warm sunlight casting geometric shadows on the wall behind her
Flat lay of white pointed-toe bridal shoes with crystal ankle straps and three vintage silver hair pins displayed on a gold picture frame
The bride laughing with her three bridesmaids in the bridal suite, with her wedding gown hanging in the background ready for the evening
The bride and her bridesmaids having a playful pillow fight on the bed while getting ready before the reception
Bridesmaids reacting with excitement as they see the bride in her white wedding gown for the first time, bathed in golden sunlight streaming through the curtains
The bride's mother in a red velvet áo dài helping adjust the back of the bride's white strapless wedding gown in soft natural window light
A soft-focus black and white portrait of the couple sharing a kiss in the garden with trees silhouetted in the evening light
The gallery table at the reception displaying framed family photos, playful caricature drawings, a hand-painted ceramic sign, lemons, and a red floral arrangement
Guests watching closely as a calligrapher writes traditional Vietnamese characters on red scrolls at the wedding reception

The reception opened with a calligraphy corner where guests could receive handwritten characters as a keepsake for the new year. The welcome area was designed with flowing drapery, decorated with tall floral arrangements, bright red chili peppers, and vibrant yellow lemons. The gallery table brought a sense of warmth through family photographs and a playful caricature drawing lovingly created by Mây, the couple’s youngest sister.

International guests admiring freshly written calligraphy at the reception's calligraphy corner while the calligrapher works on red paper scrolls
Red calligraphy scrolls with Vietnamese blessings and well-wishes hanging among lush green foliage in the garden
Two guests smiling and holding a red Vietnamese calligraphy scroll as a keepsake in front of the reception backdrop

Later in the evening, the lion dance returned, this time accompanied by Italian music, creating an unexpected yet delightful connection to the morning ceremony. Amid the rhythmic drumbeats and the cheerful encouragement of guests, Roxy and Massimo stepped onto the stage with their families to officially begin the celebration.​ Rather than following a strict program, the couple chose to guide the evening themselves through stories they had thoughtfully prepared. They shared memories of cultural experiences, how they first met, and the years they spent exploring the world together. Piece by piece, these stories revealed the deeper values behind their journey: love, family and companionship.

A lion dancer weaving between dinner tables as the couple and guests wave napkins and cheer during the lively evening reception at Chloe Gallery
The couple posing triumphantly between two red lion dancers on the reception stage decorated with lanterns, disco balls, and a hand-painted lotus and lemon floor
The couple raising their arms and dancing joyfully among guests during the evening party at Chloe Gallery's atmospheric outdoor venue
A black and white wide shot of both families standing together on stage before their guests, framed by hanging lanterns, mirror balls, and suspended floral installations
The newlyweds sharing a kiss at their outdoor sweetheart table decorated with a hand-painted bamboo tablecloth, candles, red floral arrangement, and calligraphy scrolls

The evening continued with a heartfelt piano performance by Na, Roxy’s sister, filling the room with gentle melodies. Soon after, guests joined in a relaxed and joyful atmosphere of karaoke, laughter, and spontaneous dancing, where any language barrier seemed to disappear through music.

The couple's multicultural group of friends pointing to the sky together in a spontaneous moment under fairy lights at the end of a joyful evening
A group of international friends singing together arm in arm on stage under lanterns and disco balls, capturing the moment with a selfie stick

The night unfolded through simple yet genuine moments, reminding everyone that a celebration becomes truly complete when every guest feels a sense of belonging. As the lights slowly dimmed, it also marked the beginning of a new chapter for Roxy and Massimo, where their love for food, cultural stories, and family connections will continue to guide them toward new experiences in the life ahead.

The groom smiling as he dances with a guest in a brown satin dress, with blurred lanterns and other couples dancing in the background
A black and white portrait of the bride dancing with her father, their hands raised together under lanterns and disco balls with soft fog drifting across the stage
A guest in a velvet burgundy blazer striking a playful pose on the dance floor during the late-night party
The bride's mother in a red velvet áo dài dancing with her arms raised joyfully alongside the bride and guests on the dance floor
A motion-blurred shot of guests dancing in pairs on the dance floor with Vietnamese lanterns glowing softly in the background
A black and white candid of the bride dancing with a young flower girl on the dance floor while guests clap and cheer around them
The couple dancing joyfully on stage with family members and children as colorful lanterns and stage lights illuminate the lively celebration
A candid black and white shot of the couple dancing freely on the dance floor, the groom in shirtsleeves and bow tie with lanterns and disco balls overhead
Guests dancing energetically on the dance floor with one making a heart sign above her head, captured in motion blur under blurred colorful lanterns

OUR TRUSTED PARTNERS

Wedding planner & Coordinator: The Story Packer

Wedding venue: Chloe Gallery Living - Dining - Event

Flowers & Decoration: Home Garden Wedding Decor
Photographer: SBCC.Shoot by Can Comic
Videographer: About Time Wedding Films
MUA: Trần Quốc Thắng
Áo dài: XÉO XỌ
Bridal attires: Aje, Laher, a.b. Ellie, Bared Footwear, Kat the Label
Groom’s suit & accessories: Suitsupply, Cartier
Stationery: AAD ATELIER
Band: The Papers
DJ: WildDragonz

Vietnam Wedding Planner & Styling

Destination Weddings | Intimate Weddings

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